Live with passion and harmony – a CEO's perspective

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Got this link from a colleague today–the CEO of advertising giant Saatchi & Saatchi lecturing to a student group at Wharton about business. Loved listening to this guy’s English accent as he spoke of looking at a world without limitations — only possibilities. Perfect advice for single working women — give up the struggle for balancing (which equals compromise), and live with joy in all you do. Easier said than done, you say? Yeah, but utterly possible when we open our hearts and minds.

The main points of the lecture:

  • Ideas are the currency of the future
  • Ideas are emotion-based
  • o Rational – leads to conclusions
  • o Emotions lead to action
  • o Fail fast. Learn fast. Fix fast.
  • Insight trumps data/information – research doesn’t yield insight
  • Develop foresight as a result of your insight
  • And/And – it’s about integration, not compromise – not work/life balance, but continuous joy. Combine passion and harmony
  • Forget mission statements – what’s your dream?
  • When given command, take charge and do what’s right
  • The role of business is to make the world a better place

Here’s how the speaker does it:

  • Spends time with the leaders of tomorrow (lectures, teaching)
  • Pays Saatchi associates to give 10% of their time to pro bono causes
  • Bought @Now – all about sustainability. Thinking blue not green–blue skies, blue oceans. Consulting with huge companies about becoming sustainable.

These are big things he’s doing. But even small things can make a great difference to our world–and a huge difference to your life. Read Creative Visualization by Shakti Gawain. Read You Can Heal Your Life by Louise Hay. Don’t stay stuck if you feel that way. Life is too short!

Book review: Wife Goes On – women getting single again

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“Wife Goes On” by Leslie Lehr is a witty, sexy novel about what it feels like to get divorced. Four characters, each woman going through a divorce in a completely different way, connect with each others’ lives and find out that they have something very important in common–the overwhelming emotional burdens that come with losing your status as part of a couple. One of the main characters talks about the great mystery of the divorce process. She realizes after a long struggle to find her way that the process has an incredibly steep learning curve. And once you “get” what’s it’s all about, you have a vast store of information that’s now useless for you and only of interest to someone else just starting.

A quote begins to express some of the book’s sharp observations about what it means to be single in our society. An exchange between two waitresses in a restaurant:

‘The four in the corner’s clearing, but the server just got stiffed and there’s a VIP party due. We need a loser table.’, ‘I beg your pardon?’ Diane said. The waitress turned around ‘Oh, I’m sorry, that’s just an expression. It means table for one.’

The expression shows unthinking prejudice that’s not unlike the accepted use of racist language that was so common about African Americans in our country for generations.

If we change the language, we can start changing the thinking. We’re working on it…