The Power of Now


No unhappiness. No pain. Constant peace, contentment, and joy. That’s how authors describe the state of being enlightened. Sounds like a fantasy, right?

When did we first start talking about “enlightenment” in popular reading? Probably different for each of us, but it seems to be a universally known term these days. In Eckhart Tolle’s book The Power of Now, he uses a question and reply format to explain what it means to be enlightened–that is, fully present in all you do, paying attention only to the exact moment you’re in. He asks, “What problem do you have right this moment?” The answer, he says, is invariably, you don’t have a problem.

How could that be, we might ask, if I am in pain? He says it’s possible to observe your body–and your mind–from the perspective of your Being and know that you–the real you, your spiritual essence– are separate from your suffering or your pain. He says we may experience fleeting moments of this full consciousness, where we feel and sense the sacredness of nature in the beauty of a forest or a flower, a child, or an animal. I think I feel this sometimes when I’m dancing or exercising to music that moves me–it feels transcendant, like nothing else matters at that moment, and also that everything is perfect as it is.

But we can, says Tolle, choose to be in this state as often as we like. Wow. What a power. So why don’t we do it? He says our minds get in our way–our hangups with the past and with the future. Here’s a great exercise he suggests:

Close your eyes. Sit quietly and say to yourself, “I wonder what my next thought will be.” Then become very alert and wait for the next thought. Be like a cat watching a mouse hole. What thought is going to come out of the mouse hole? Try it now.

Most likely you’ll have to wait a long time for a thought. He says this demonstrates that “as long as you’re in a state of intense presence, you are free of thought. You are still, yet highly alert. The instant your conscious attention sinks below a certain level, thought rushes in. The mental noise returns; the stillness is lost. You are back in time.”
That’s how it was for me–took a while before a thought came. And now I have a new trick to use for when I try to meditate and have such a hard time quieting my brain. Is it possible that someone who lives alone has more opportunities for practicing this? Please share if you have any tricks for meditation or for when you can’t fall back asleep in the middle of the night.

Let your light shine!


My dear friend Linda shared this with me today. A good thing for all of us to ponder:

“Our deepest fear is not that we are inadequate. Our deepest fear is that we are powerful beyond measure. It is our light that most frightens us. We ask ourselves, ‘Who am I to be brilliant, gorgeous, talented, fabulous?’ Actually, who are you NOT to be? You are a child of God. Your playing small does not serve the world. There is nothing enlightened about shrinking so that other people won’t feel insecure around you. We are all meant to shine as children do. We were born to make manifest the glory of God that is within us. It’s not just in some of us; it is in everyone. And as we let our own light shine, we unconsciously give others permission to do the same. As we are liberated from our own fear, our presence automatically liberates others.

-Marianne Williamson

Have you ever heard that before–“fear of success”? It’s a hard thing to stand out. Often when others do not feel strong, they want to knock down those who do. You do, in fact, risk becoming a target when you step out of the shadows. That vulnerability can frighten us away from manifesting our best selves. How do we overcome it? The first step–and one you may have to practice repeatedly–is to simply tell yourself “Stop it!” and substitute positive thoughts for negative self talk.

If you’re looking for more inspiration, check out this great site full of quotations from Marianne Williamson and lots of other women.